You have to know this, okay?
Saturday, July 20, 2019
You have to know this, okay?
People don't run on algorithms, calculations, or instincts. They don't run on complex algebraic formulae, scientific computations, or logical derivations. They run on trust, faith, willpower, and most importantly, hope! Life functions on hope. Once you lose hope, you do not have anything else to live for. If you do not inculcate this into relationships then what are you living for? If humans were meant to function on mathematics, they wouldn't have felt the emotions.
I miss "us" I miss the way we used to be connected. We are stuck; at our work, with our family, in our thoughts, with other commitments, and I do not know what else.
That one hour of unexpected car drive to home which we took last week is everything I have ever dreamt of. Being together, laughing, facing the unexpected, and walking thru it, reaching the destination even if it's late and more importantly being together. I crave for all of this. I need your time and attention. I need us to be with each other thru this life. I would prefer us walking together thru the confusion and emerging on the other side of it, and not facing everything alone.
I want us to last. I don't want to have a couple of amazing years and finish everything in a flash. I don't want to experience the feelings of hurt, confusion, and disappointments. No matter what we run into no matter what we face. I want us to stick together.
I do not know what the future holds for us. I am not an astrologer and neither would I trust the most experienced and proven Nostradamus to predict the future. What I do know is whatever life may throw at us is a cakewalk if both of us are together. I don't know if you have realized this or not but few people get to experience what we do.
When I see our life together, I see us fulfilling all our dreams. Having a happy family, being together, getting through any obstacles which may arise, laughing, singing, talking, dancing, experiencing new stuff, exploring new places, traveling to different countries, building a home, breaking the stereotype, and just proving everyone wrong who have said this is not going to work out (which is the entire world) I know we can do this, I have enough trust and faith in myself and in this relationship that we will reach this height.
The realm of life is always mysterious and there is no way to know what twists and turns we may have to face, all I am saying is if we are together then the first impact of these struggles will reduce. There will be stress, there will be fights, there will be stupidity, there will be doubts, but we can solve this and rise above all.
You have asked me multiple times, "How do you picture our life?" I am someone who believes we can build the life we want. If you want a happy life, we work together towards it irrespective of what the situations are. I also believe we can tweak those situations to suit our needs and requirements. So, the question is, what kind of life can we build together? And I am sure it is will be a damn good one.
Let us root for each other and watch us grow!
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Note: Credit to the first paragraph to the respective writer, all the following paragraphs are built on it.